Each time i search for a topic to write a blog about, someone or the other puts up a GOOD question and i find it difficult to resist my self and i end up here in front of the PC - typing.
I was browsing the net without any true purpose.
Boredom was all over me. So bored that even a class of algebra would have seemed exciting! (ah... i think that was over exaggeration... but i guess u get a feel of my situation!)
I turned to facebook again.
It didn't fail me this time either.
I caught up with a friend on chat.
It started off with those same old traditional questions ... how are u? all's well ... blah blah blah... (i don't get the purpose of these questions actually! Do you think a person suffering a life threatening disease wud be there chatting with u?? then where's the need of the question ... "how are u?").
To be honest i myself asked those very questions out of formality if not out of care!
Same old questions... Same old answers!
But my friend has always been a bouquet of surprises.
She kept up her reputation.
the chat changed moods... topics were into territories which few would CHAT about.
"What is the most important thing for u in life?", She asked.
I still dont know the answer... but i replied that my friends were my biggest strenghts...
That led to the question which prompted me to write this blog ...
"Define friendship."
This chat was getting as tough as a chemistry viva!
Friendship .... i wondered...
Friendship .... i wondered again!...
Nothing solid came to my mind but the faces of the mischievous boys and the calm looking girls...
Friendship...
Making our mates pay for our cooldrink, riding on their bike, playing with them, and those ever lasting gappas ...
Is that friendship?
If i had my way, that would be the definition of friendship in the Oxford dictionary.
But as always... I never have my way...
"Friendship is a mutual relationship wherein the two (or more) involved have a feeling of trust , love and affection between them." I read in the dictionary.
If you didn't understand what is written above... Dont worry - I'm with you!
Yaar, friendship is that where u are comfortable with ur friend.
U help your friend , your friend helps you.
U share joy or happiness with him/her and ready to listen to their sorrows.
U always trust your friend without a second thought.
(don't think i'm getting too emotional or something... I'm still normal)
Friendship is that which remains when one has lost everything else!
well that's my reply to the question my friend asked, i guess.
Apart from all this, there's one thing I realized while writing this blog...
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"FRIENDSHIP CAN'T BE DEFINED "
*That gives u an indication ... this blog was actually pointless, as the question it revolved about goes unanswered!